Who do I tell?

Think about the treatment you would want and talk about it with your family/ significant others and your doctor. It may be hard for you and your family/those close to you to face some of the questions and information, but thinking about the medical treatment that is important to you is no different to putting thought into your life insurance, your will or planning for many aspects of your future.

• Talk to your family and to those most likely to be involved in making decisions if you are very ill.
  A close or loving relationship does not always mean that the other person knows or understands your wishes for future medical care.
• Talk to your doctor.
  They can help you to understand your current health and what may happen in the future.
  They may assist you to make sure your Advance Care Plan is clear and complete.
  Give your doctor a copy of your completed Advance Care Plan.
  Talk to a Respecting Patient Choices Consultant (if available) and they will help you to discuss these issues with your family and doctor.
• Talk to significant others involved in your care

It can also be helpful to discuss advance care planning with a nurse, social worker or religious advisor to talk through some of the issues and questions that you may have. Questions regarding medical treatments need to be addressed to your doctor, however it may be helpful to have a friend or other person involved in your care present with you when you discuss these questions.